you're right how ever being degraded & willing used by that top oh what a treat bottom got ! If it were me I. speak engish hoping hot spanish top would be more brutal if top was Puerto Rican that ass got it good !
Sex should be enjoyable for everyone involved. I make no qualms about when I top, for the guy I'm gonna fuck, I tell him upfront. I can be a selfish top, when I'm feeling aggressive and needing to breed. If at any point you wanna slow down, stop, or "take it easy", I'm NOT going to do that and it'll just egg me on to fuck him harder until I blast my load inside of his torn up ass. However, with all that being said, my bottom is well aware of this BEFORE the clothes come off. So if it gets to that point, they were a willing participant in the whole experience. I expect the same if I bottom for a man.